Once upon a time, there was a great speaker called Facunda who set her audience alight with riveting openings and challenging questions.
She skilfully elaborated ideas with supporting evidence and stories. Audiences hung on her every word.
And then it came to the conclusion, the ‘thank-you-for-listening, my-time-seems-to-be-up’ damp squib. Such a disappointing close and such a missed opportunity.
Call to action
Conclusions are the speaker’s opportunity to craft what they want their audience to remember tomorrow and take action on. It is the speaker’s opportunity to reaffirm their authority as someone with a message to share and one that is worth hearing. It is for this reason that many speakers believe the ending is the most important part of a speech.
Well-crafted final words will stick in people’s minds. This is partly the psychological recency effect and partly the result of a well-structured speech that ends with a fitting conclusion. For this reason it’s best to avoid wishy-washy endings:
Apologising for not covering everything you hoped to cover
Saying “Thank you for listening”
Empty pleasantry such as “It was a pleasure to be here”
Closing with the answer to a random question from the audience.
At the end of a speech, the conclusion enables you to summarise your key message and deliver a call to action. So, how can you end with a bang, not a Facunda-style whimper? How can you create happy endings?
Your conclusion should signal the end, but it is not just a final sentence. As a general rule of thumb, it should be about 10-15% of your speech. As soon as you start to summarise/review your main ideas, the audience understands that the speech is coming to an end. This removes the need for words like ‘in conclusion’ or ‘finally’. If you feel using this kind of signal to your audience is helpful, make sure you mean it; don’t ramble on or add new points.
There are a host of ways to end your presentation with a bang. They all strive to help you achieve impact, memorability, engagement and commitment.
Creating impact
As speakers, you want to influence your audiences. You are seeking to inform, persuade or inspire. You are trying to influence their knowledge, behaviour, attitudes, opinions and even beliefs. You need to crystallise your message and activate your audience. To create this level of impact, there are many techniques at your disposal that help produce compelling and impactful conclusions.
For example:
Reinforce your overall purpose
Make sure the purpose of your speech is reinforced and crystal clear in the ending. Think of this in terms of both content and style of delivery. If you say something inspiring your body language must mirror this – no awkward slouching but strong upright posture
Use delivery to emphasise importance
Be clear in articulating your key message. Harness your vocal variety, tone of voice, passion and enthusiasm – SAMENESS is the biggest enemy of the speaker; change energy, pace, etc. Difference indicates importance
Summarise using key questions
You might summarise in the tried-and-tested form of “Tell ‘em what you’re going to tell ‘em. Tell ‘em. Tell ‘em what you’ve told ‘em”. Consider using rhetorical questions based on your core premise to set up your summary of your key messages. The key messages will be the answers to those questions
End with a powerful quote
Use a powerful and relevant quotation from an historic figure, business icon, etc. that resonates with your audience
A final strong statement
Make your final sentence the takeaway that encapsulates the overall theme, your main message and any call to action. Ensure it is a statement that underlines your authority and belief in your message.
Achieving memorability
As speakers, you want audiences to remember what you say, to share your pearls of wisdom and have a real impact on them:
Top speakers use anchor phrases to help them be memorable and repeatable or quotable. For Martin Luther King it was “I have a dream”. It’s a few words your audience will associate with you and your message. When your catchy, rhythmic phrase pops into their mind, the rest of your speech will be reactivated. It can contain the title of your speech or evolve during the speech, but it will help your audience remember your speech tomorrow and beyond. If your concluding remarks do not align with your anchor phrase, then they have no business in your conclusion, nor, indeed, in your speech!
Go further and cause conversation through controversy, humour, and/or great stories. Leave them thinking
Rhythm and repetition can both help to build memorability and impact, especially with an injection of appropriate humour
Bring the speech full circle by using ‘callbacks’ to your opening remarks or stories. By revisiting a story told earlier in your speech, you create memorability and provide the audience with triggers to recall your main message and serve as a powerful aide memoire
Use a relevant prop or image during your speech – one that will serve as a trigger. If you use it at the end of your speech your key message will be reinforced and will stick in people’s minds.
Building engagement and commitment
This is key to encouraging your audience to take action, particularly in any persuasive or inspirational speech:
When you speak, you lock into the ideas, information and beliefs that your audience members already have in their mind. And the conclusions are the reaffirmation of those thoughts and ideas. What’s in it for the listener and what you want them to do
Use personal stories and anecdotes to engage powerfully with your audience, while using a ‘callback’, to create familiarity and a warm connection with your listeners
Invite your audience to take up or consider any call to action you make. Tone of voice is crucial. If you want people to do something as a consequence of experiencing your speech, you need to persuade them and invite them in both your closing words and the manner of their delivery. Telling and instructing may break the connection you have created. Reconnect them with your stories and your central theme
Alternatively, take the words of an historic figure or other relevant person and invite the audience to do as they have done
Is your audience made up of people from the same organisation or do they share a common interest? Referencing a publication or a quotation that resonates with them will create a connection with you and your call to action
Show them your call to action as a solution to an issue, problem or challenge. Show them the benefits to them of embracing your call to action. Show them your commitment and enthusiasm.
In conclusion
Once upon a time, there was a great speaker called Facunda who set her audience alight with riveting openings and challenging questions.
She skilfully elaborated ideas with supporting evidence and stories. Audiences hung on her every word.
And when it came to the conclusion, the audience was on its feet, cheering for more, queueing to be a part of the call to action, sharing Facunda’s stories and observations.
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Language
What is it?
As speakers, we have a responsibility to communicate clearly in a way that is erudite, engaging and connecting
Why is it important?
Language used correctly reinforces your expertise and credibility as a speaker, enriches your words and helps to make your message more memorable
How do you deliver it?
A conversational style that feels natural and relaxed makes your speech accessible and easy to absorb. However, public speaking is so much more than just having a chat with your friends. Erudite choice of words, enriched with rhetorical devices and dialogue need to be carefully crafted
Keynote
What is it?
The main speech at a meeting or conference delivered to all attendees in a general session. It is usually delivered by a renowned speaker who will attract attendance
Why is it important?
A keynote sets the tone for the event. It is designed to share ideas, illustrated with plenty of examples to bring those ideas to life. It is not simply to inform or entertain an audience. Rather, as the keynote speaker, your goal is to put some of your ideas and experiences into your audience’s minds to come out in their lives
How do you deliver it?
With all the speaking skills from how you discovered the ideas, an attention-grabbing opening, storytelling, conversational delivery style, memorable close, leaving your audience with new skills and capabilities
Jargon
What is it?
The specialised or technical language of a trade, profession or other interest group. It usually serves as a form of ‘shorthand’ only understood by the members of the group to convey hidden meanings and shortcuts that they accept and understand
Why is it important?
Jargon is polarising. Used with an audience whose members are all party to the jargon, it can be highly engaging and connecting, even humorous, creating a strong sense of cohesion and belonging. Equally, it can be excluding of anyone who is not part of the ‘in’ group
How do you deliver it?
Use jargon with great care to ensure you never exclude any member of your audience. Your goal is clarity at all times, so use jargon sparingly to avoid sounding unnatural and contrived or causing confusion
Ideas
What are they?
Ideas are the reason you are giving your speech, the message you want to share with an audience
Why are they important?
When we speak, we have a responsibility to share our ideas in a way that is relevant to our audience. If we effect some kind of change in them, so much the better
How do you deliver them?
Ideas can come from anywhere, at any time. The beauty of today is that we usually have a smartphone with us. Create a special place in your phone where you can capture pictures and notes that may be useful in a speech. Don’t edit at this stage, just capture. Editing comes when you build your ideas into a speech
Humour
What is it?
Our sense of humour is what we find funny or amusing. Something that makes us laugh
Why is it important?
According to Victor Borge, “Laughter is the shortest distance between two people”. It is the basis for connecting with your audience and, thereby, being heard and remembered
How do you deliver it?
Be yourself, prepared to show your vulnerable side, to be open. Breathe deeply to appear calm, while adopting a stable and confident stance. Ensure your body language is congruent with your words and that you maintain eye contact throughout
~ Original painting of Mona Lisa by Fernando Botero
Glossophobia
What is it?
The fear of public speaking, a fear we learn. It’s not innate and we can learn to make our fear work for us
Why is it important?
Nerves are adrenalin that can manifest as fear that can be crippling and limit our efficacy or as positive energy that enhances our speech and our presence on stage
How do you overcome it?
Think about your excuses, the reasons you’re afraid. Deconstruct these excuses and disarm them
Think about how to connect with your audience (‘C’ in this AtoZ)
Familiarise yourself with the space in which you’ll be speaking. Arrive early and introduce yourself to people so that they become friendly and familiar faces in your audience
Give yourself the pre-match pep talk about just how good your speech is and its value to your audience
Remember, your audience wants you to be good, so that they also have an interesting and enjoyable experience
Filler
What is it?
A word or a sound such as er, um, like …
Why is it important?
These little monsters can be the enemy of the public speaker. The odd one here and there might well go unnoticed. However, when your speech is littered with these little critters, they become a distraction. Your audience’s concentration shifts away from what you want to say to focusing on these irritating insertions. Worse still, these fillers belie nerves and fear of your public
How do you overcome it?
Practise swapping the er/um/like sound for silence. Take a breath, pause. What seems like a long time to you, will be barely perceptible to your audience and certainly won’t distract them. Pause. Breathe. Speak
Eye contact
What is it?
The invisible link that brings a confident and sincere connection to your audience. We trust people who look us in the eye when they are talking to us
Why is it important?
Without that engagement, your audience is unlikely to absorb your message
How do you deliver it?
Start with a friendly face. Look them in the eye for a phrase or a sentence, then work through the audience, perhaps following a ‘Z’ shape. Avoid the nervy panning & scanning and ensure you make focused eye contact
Difference
What is it?
The standout that makes people listen and remember what you have to share with them
Why is it important?
It helps your audience differentiate your message from competing demands for their attention. It adds contrast and colour to your speech
How do you deliver it?
Look for opportunities in all aspects of your speech from the clothes you choose to wear, to your speech opening, content, words you use, your delivery – body language, vocal variety, use of stage
Connection
What is it?
The link between you and your audience that makes you relatable and them wanting to engage
Why is it important?
Without connection, you might as well be talking to yourself! It makes your audience engage and feel. Without a strong connection, your audience is very unlikely to remember your message. It also helps you feel calmer!
How do you deliver it?
First and foremost, it involves knowing your audience. Crucially, it’s about you sharing something of value that you care about and your audience wants to hear. It takes authenticity, personal stories, asking questions … You must know your audience if you are to create strong connections
Breathe
What is it?
Deep breaths are your key to feeling calm(er) and controlling your voice
Why is it important?
Shallow breathing, high in the chest, makes your voice go high, squeaky and wobbly, so you sound nervous
How do you deliver it?
Deep breaths into the abdomen, hold for a few seconds and slowly release will help you calm yourself, modulate your voice and project outwards to your whole audience
Authenticity
What is it?
The ‘real’ you made visible to your audience through sincerity, honesty
Why is it important?
It is the basis for connecting with your audience and, thereby, being heard and remembered
How do you deliver it?
Be yourself, prepared to show your vulnerable side, to be open. Breathe deeply to appear calm, while adopting a stable and confident stance. Ensure your body language is congruent with your words and that you maintain eye contact throughout